“嫁”给自己,做自己最可靠的后盾 | A Loyal Supporter For Yourself

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英语共读 · 2016-12-20 22:21

“嫁”给自己,做自己最可靠的后盾 | A Loyal Supporter For Yourself


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You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. Probably, someone you love will dump you, your proud career will abandon you. However, no matter who will dump you, you will the strongest backing for yourself. 

你自己,比全世界的其他人,更值得你的关爱和喜欢。可能,你喜欢的人可能会抛弃你,你引以为傲的事业可能会抛弃你。但是,不管谁会放弃你,你始终是自己最强的后盾。



So, make a promise to yourself deep in heart. These vows are deepest commitment to love, cherish, and deeply care for all parts of yourself in sickness and in health, until your time on the planet comes to an end.

在内心深处给自己许下诺言。这些誓言是来自你内心对爱情、珍爱、和深藏在你内心的所有一切的最诚挚的承诺,无论生命健康与否,会追随你直到你在这个世界上的最后一天。



Vows are below:

誓言如下:

I vow to comfort myself during times of hopelessness, despair, depression, disillusionment, or any difficulty that arises.

我发誓,在绝望、沮丧、幻灭或任何困难出现的时候,我会安慰自己。


I vow to be my beloved always and in all ways.

我发誓,我会一直,并以一切方式,做自己最心爱的人。


I vow to never give up all due to my settling or abandoning myself in romantic partnerships again. I would catch hold of both love and my own independence. 

我发誓,我不会把自己再次扔进并沉湎与浪漫爱情之中而放弃其他一切。我要爱情,也要自己的独立。


I vow to honor my spiritual path and create an amazing life whether I am ever legally married or not.

我发誓,不管我结婚与否,以我的精神道路为荣,并创造出让人惊讶的人生。


I vow to do my best and live my life as a work of art.

我发誓,尽全力让自己的人生活得像艺术品一样精彩。


Some vows were tender and some fierce—some private, and some to be shared with the world. However, these vows are the gateway into a life that is deeper, richer, and more connected to my soul’s guidance. And here are three ways to say “I Do” to you.

誓言有些是温和的,有些是激烈的,有些私人的,有些可以与全世界分享。但是,这些誓言都是进入生命的一个途径,它们越深入越丰富,与灵魂有更密切联系。而且,以下有四种方式对自己说“我愿意”。


1. Write Your Soul Vows

1. 写下你的灵魂誓言




You have a deeply cherished and aspirational vision for your life, and your soul vows are a way to get it out of your soul and on paper. Meanwhile, you could create a video, write an article. Or, even host a celebration party. Why not?

你对自己的生活有最珍视的、最向往的视角,所以你的灵魂誓言是你用文字把心里的话记录出来的。与此同时,你也可以做一个视频,写一篇文章。甚至,为自己举办一个庆祝排队。有何不可?


2. Create One’s Vision Board
2. 创造个人愿景板




Your soul vows may be magnificently revealed in a vision for your life. Carve out some time to craft a vision board from images that resonate with you. Allow yourself to be intuitively drawn to these images and don’t rely on your rational mind. Later, you just follow the direction and hold on striving.

你的灵魂誓言将以最大程度展现你生活的视角。留出一些时间,制造一个和你的形象有共鸣的愿景版。允许你自己直观地绘制出这些形象,不要依赖你的理智。此后,你需要朝着方向坚持奋斗。


3. Meaningful Gift
3. 有意义的礼物



Pick out a gift that is meaningful for you, such as a necklace, a watch. Every time, it just reminds you of your soul vows when seeing it. A lady actually created a sacred jewelry business after marrying herself. She’s finally found her path after years of meandering. You can also make it.

挑选一件对你有意义的礼物,例如一条项链,一块手表。每次,当你看到它就想起自己的灵魂誓言。曾有一位女士在“嫁给”自己后,送了自己一个神圣的珠宝。然后在经历多年的曲折之后,她终于找到了属于自己的道路。你也可以做到的。


4. Be witnessed In Your Sacred Vows
4. 见证自己的神圣誓言



While making a soul vows, perhaps a ceremony with a few close friends? To find a way to have others acknowledge this transformation. And it is an important sign in life, as well as a milestone.

在做灵魂誓言时,不妨举行一个小型典礼,让其他人见证你的这种转变。而且是人生一大重要标志,同时也是人生路上的里程碑。


And while the marrying myself was a lovely starting place, it is exactly just the beginning. A sophist once said, “Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” Be a most faithful supporter to yourself.

“嫁”给自己是一个可爱的起点,但它也仅仅是一个开始。一位智者曾说过:“你的任务不是要寻觅爱,但只有寻觅并发现挡住你的障碍,你才能去冲破它。”做自己最忠实的拥护者。


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There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

前方,有更美好的未来。


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